Nice Guys Finish Last

Ths is a lesson have learned over and over, and I havent a clue why it hasnt sunk in yet. Nce Guys Finish Last. should know...I am one. Each and every time I fi\nd a seemingly decent girl, I flip mode. I switch to nie huy mode/ I turn into a nice guy. I do things, like give rides, spend money, go to dnner...all inthe hopes that my niceties will win the day. Well, they dont. Ever.